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People that frustrate worship leaders (part 1)

By Guest Blogger | May 21, 2009

I found this great post at Chico Woo’s blog. He’s kindly agreed to let us post it here too.

I am not a worship leader, but if I were, these are some of the pet peeves that I would have. If you are worship leader please add yours to the list.

Paraphernalia Worshippers. There are a group of worshippers that need extra stuff to make worship interesting for them.tambourine-player

  • Tambourines. Nothing irritates a worship leader more than people in the congregation that bring their own instruments. It is an unspoken rule that instruments should be confined to the stage only. Tambourines are no exception to this rule. Actually, tambourines were the reason for this rule.
  • Shofars. Some of you may not know this, especially if you are from a more conservative background, but in our movement shofars are popular. Often at special events in the middle of a silent moment, somebody will decide to blow the shofar. If you have ever heard a shofar you know that they are in a weird key and clash with the music. When you blow it during a song or quiet interlude it is the most distracting thing! Also, I have never met a great shofar player.
  • Banners and flags. Maybe this is strictly in our movement, but I am not sure who decided that banner and flag waving was cool. If you want to twirl something how about skipping banners and going for twirling fire batons! Fire is cool in a service.

I have thought about putting a box by the door like TSA security does and all of your worship paraphernalia needs to be left in the box before you go into the church auditorium.

Clap Dysfunctional Worshippers.

  • People who do on-beat clapping. There is that one lone person in the church service that has to try and be nonconformist and starts clapping on the on-beat. One clapper inspires another clapper and soon we have a clap collision – on and off.clapping
  • People that do fancy clapping. This clapper decides to add a double or triple clap in-between claps. You may have the gift and you want to share it, but when you fancy clap everyone else thinks they can fancy clap also. This is a clapping disaster waiting to happen.
  • People who are non-clappers. It is people that refuse to clap on a song that needs clapping. That means that I have to start clapping and I am trying to sing a song plus hold a microphone in one hand. I am not getting one of those hands-free Britney Spears Drive Thru Window microphones. I can’t clap with my hands because I have to hold a microphone, so I have to start clapping against my forearm. The inside of the forearm. The most tender part of the forearm. Look, I understand worship is supposed to be a sacrifice, but do I have to sacrifice the flesh of my forearm for you so that you will clap? Go ahead; slap your forearm, the tender part of your forearm. See how that feels. Not great. So clap. C’mon, if you’re happy and you know it clap your hands. If you’re happy and you know it clap your hands!
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67 Comments

  1. Thomas
    Posted May 21, 2009 at 9:06 pm | Permalink

    Uhmm… I never heard of people bringing their tambourines into a service :D
    But the clapping thing, come ooon. We have on beat clappers in our church, too. Just because we have older people who listen to Volksmusik (greetings from germany :) search volksmusik on youtube. Hahaaa. Enjoy!)
    We are musicians, sure. Those guys probably love us and appreciate our service, but most of them are not musically as talented… Let them clap how they want to :) Or lets provide seminars like “how to clap right in a worship service – three easy steps to become a God pleasing clapper”
    Cheers guys

  2. Roy Catchpole
    Posted May 24, 2009 at 6:03 pm | Permalink

    Go on. Let em clap. It’s a sign they’re alive! On the other hand (sic), I’m a beginner drummer, so what do I know? Great DVDs though, and Colin Brookes seems a real nice guy.

  3. Aaron
    Posted May 27, 2009 at 6:06 pm | Permalink

    I no longer encourage clapping in our church. I fought through it for a while, but I’ve found that when we start clapping it soon turns into applause. We even have a fantastic drummer, but no rhythm in the congregation…

  4. Jackie
    Posted May 27, 2009 at 6:30 pm | Permalink

    We’ve not only had tambourines – we’ve had items such as rainsticks! We’ve also had flags and banners in our faces while trying to worship!

  5. Tim
    Posted May 27, 2009 at 8:22 pm | Permalink

    I am guessing and hoping that this blog is all tongue in cheek but to be honest if the congregation wanted to join in clapping (in time or out), dancing (well or badly), flag waving (big or small) I would be very pleased.

    I don’t remember seeing anything in the Bible which says that only the band can lead. The Spirit leads wherever the heck He likes and we should be a little careful about presuming what is right and what is wrong.

    God is fond of using the child-like and foolish to ordain or approve His praise and show who is really running the show. A good worship leader looks out for the things of the Spirit no matter how irritating they may be to your carefully orchestrated set…

    Grace and peace

  6. geoff boswell
    Posted May 27, 2009 at 9:51 pm | Permalink

    I agree totally with Tim. I’m sure it was tongue in cheek but it does raise the issue of ‘who are we to judge?’

    It may often be quite hard on the ears of more musical beings but what is good music? What is good and what is bad? After all some people EVEN enjoy Britains Got Talent [I sometimes do!].

    What maybe distracting for me may go over [or even under] the heads and hearts of others – oh yes and then their is God. What does he think?

    I am all for us striving for excellence in our musical worship but I certainly don’t see Christ stopping the clappers [on or off the beat], or the flag wavers and ‘tambo’ shakers or even the LOUD slightly out of tune singers!

    You see, I may have a problem with all of these [personally as a worship musician and as a worshipper I often do] but its not me that the praise and worship is for……. is it?

  7. Mamo McCallum
    Posted May 28, 2009 at 12:54 am | Permalink

    I’m guilty of doing all those things.

  8. Alisha
    Posted May 28, 2009 at 3:23 am | Permalink

    I am not a worship leader. I can’t sing well, I can clap as long as someone doesn’t get fancy, then I just have to quit.
    We are very free at our church. We can dance, wave banners off to the side where there is plenty of room, but most of us don’t.
    Do you know why?
    Because we are afraid of what people will think.
    I have seen some strange things at times, had to gently talk to some ladies, but no matter how strange, wierd and yes sometimes distracting. They just love God and want to worship Him.

  9. Dave
    Posted May 28, 2009 at 7:58 am | Permalink

    Wasn’t there once a song called “undignified” about a King who was undignified? Me, I’d like to see more people worshipping with more of their hearts and minds and souls and bodies (and maybe clapping and banners and tamborines) . . . isn’t that what God wants . . . or have I missed something?

    love Dave

  10. Geoff Stilwell
    Posted May 28, 2009 at 9:00 am | Permalink

    I actually tried to encourage people at our church to play tambourine, maraccas, etc. I even handed them out and I’ve had cause to regret it sometimes. However, there has been an improvement in recent times. Practice!

    I run “Worship Worshops” after services, to introduce new songs and practices. One of the topics was ‘Clapping on the Off Beat’. They still haven’t got it!

    I must disagree with Chico about Flag/Banner worship. I’ve seen some excellent displays at larger Worship conferences and concerts. At our church my daughter provides occasional displays when she is staying with me. Everyone comments on the way she interprets the songs with movement and enhances the Worship Experience.

    And I agree with Dave about being free to express your Worship and love for God with your All. That’s why I came to my church.

    Geoff

  11. Aileen
    Posted May 28, 2009 at 11:27 am | Permalink

    I totally agree with Tim. Worship leaders are supposed to facilitate the congregation into a mode of worship where they lose themselves to God. Its all about Him!

  12. Don
    Posted May 28, 2009 at 12:45 pm | Permalink

    I might get flamed for this but I gotta say something. While I agree we should not “judge” others eternal destiny, we constantly told in the scripture to “judge” things. Worship is one of those things. (check out 1 Cor for all kinds of judgment going on from Paul)

    Scripture says Psalm33: 2 Praise the LORD with the harp; Make melody to Him with an instrument of ten strings. 3 Sing to Him a new song; Play skillfully with a shout of joy.

    We are to “Play skillfully” and “Make melody”. If you are simply lifting your voice in praise that is one thing. But God actually requires skill when worshiping him with instruments. I know that is counter to our modern church thinking, but we require diligence and hard work in almost everything we do. (Your job requires you to be trained and do it right.) Why would we give LESS to God and encourage or enable others to do so also?

    Pastors are supposed to “study to show themselves approved”, and worship leaders are supposed to “play skillfully”. It is our job to LEAD the congregation into worship and the word in a way that grows and improves their study/worship abilities. (i.e. classes, and training)

    Just my 2 cents.

  13. terry
    Posted May 29, 2009 at 8:33 am | Permalink

    The Bible truly states that we should worship skillfully, if u know how to do it skillfully. But what about those who are so passionate about worshipping our God and are just doing it the best way they know how to do it? They may be out of tune or off-beat but they are giving out their hearts to express their joy and gratitude to God. Remember the bible says that,’where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty’. I used to get irritated when the musicians or maybe someone in the congregation is clapping or using a tambourine ‘unskillfully’ but I’ve come to find out that I lose focus when I give my attention to that. We are supposed to be leading worship and once you focus on what someone else is doing, how are u worshipping then?

    Where there is opportunity to teach people how to clap or use the tambourine or the flag or even dance, then we can by all means do that so that nobody gets ‘irritated’. until then, ‘Let the praise begin and let the people of God worship Him with their hearts and soul, expressing themselves the best way they can’.

  14. Ian
    Posted May 29, 2009 at 8:59 am | Permalink

    Come on … most church activity is a spectator sport anyway and now you want to encourage the professionalization of musical accompaniment from the congregation. That sucks. Step away from your pre-conceptions of making everything a production and let folks contribute in anyway that they can.

    You sound like someone who is more in tune with God than I am but for crying out loud as if he is put off by someone clapping on-beat, off-beat, no-beat or causing a mini tornado from all those flags waving. Let people do something physical of their own volition and with what level of creativity they can muster. It’s a welcome panacea from all the other rigid stuff, you know like stand up, sit down, clap now, close your eyes, open your eyes, say hello to the people next to you … sigh.

  15. Deb
    Posted May 29, 2009 at 1:37 pm | Permalink

    I believe that worship team members are to be trained and skillful at worship. The bible is very clear about that in Psalm 33:2, 1Chronicles 25:7, etc. Anything that is a DISTRACTION to worship should be avoided at all costs, whether it’s from a team member or a congregation member. If a tambourine shaker is grossly off-beat and is parading in front of the platform, and the timing of the worship team is negatively effected, then it needs to be dealt with. I find that most times, the people that insist on bringing a tambourine or other noise maker to church with them are usually doing it to get attention. This is also something that needs to be addressed. In worship, ALL our eyes and focus should be upon Him, and not lured away to watch or listen to an out of beat or attention getting congregational member. I am a firm believer in the rule that ALL musicians need to be auditioned and then will be placed on the platform as part of the worship team when they have proven themselves to be skillful and of the right mind set and having the right motivation to be there in the first place.

  16. Aaron
    Posted May 29, 2009 at 2:30 pm | Permalink

    Let me start by saying first to myself and then all of us here, “lighten up.” There is a middle ground that it is wise to seek. I Corinthians makes it clear that there should be order to worship services so that no one walks in and thinks we’re drunk. I’ve seen some tambourine players and banner wavers that aptly fit that remark. At the same time, worship is not ONLY for God, but for the building up of his church. There is a me+God aspect, but an us (the church)+God aspect of worship. There is a reason we all sing the same song rather than saying, “The band is going to play for 30 minutes or so, sing whatever you like.” It is special when the church gathers to unite around Jesus Christ and perform the same action at the same time together (listening to teaching, singing together, praying together, etc…). No one here is trying to step on YOUR toes if you bring your tambourine or set of banners to your church. One guy was giving his opinion about the context of his church and struggles that he has. We should all be very aware of the culture of our church and encourage each believer to use his/her gifts for the glory of God and the edification of His church. So, (starting with me) let’s lighten up and continue to search for that middle ground in the midst of following the commands of Scripture and wisely pursuing areas of Christian liberty.

  17. William
    Posted June 4, 2009 at 3:15 pm | Permalink

    It seems you created a little hornets nest of controversy here… Everyone keeps saying “joyful noise” and as long as they’re trying to worship let them be. The Bible however makes clear distinctions about personal and corporate worship. Yes it needs to come from the heart and yes we need to cultivate an atmosphere of freedom… but freedom is far different from anarchy, which is what I believe you were trying to address. Paul very clearly says that all elements of the worship service need to be edifying to the church at large. Which translates to our topic as, if you can’t clap in time, then keep it to youself. Otherwise an entire room full of people clapping out of time WILL cause problems for those leading worship, and that is not edifying. I love a good amen, hallelujah, or preach it from the congregation… but if the response begins to hinder someone from hearing the message, are they appropraite?

  18. Becky
    Posted June 4, 2009 at 4:40 pm | Permalink

    Tim
    Please say your comment was tongue in cheek. Or go thoroughly read the bible and report back later.
    In case anyone doesn’t understand what a shofar is, it is a rams horn carved out to make what in Old Testament times was called a “trumpet” . It is used to call solemn assembly, 0h – that sounds like silence, announce a time of worship, a time of celebration, a call to war or prayer, a call to fasting, pronouncing a meeting over and a couple other specific uses.
    If you know no one that plays one well you should look for brass musicians and ask someone to show you what they can do with a shofar, we allow mediocre guitarists, drummers, bass players and yes even keyboardists to assault our senses every weekend in churches across the globe, why not let the little people from tambourine , clapping and shofar land to join us prima dona “rock” worshipers? Yes I am one.
    Playing skillfully is only asked for one time in the Psalms and is not to be discounted but everyone is a beginner at some point. We are so fussy about what we do in our church services that folks who love to praise God with all their hearts, those who offer true sacrifices of worship yet lack training or even talent are terrified of our fussiness. The suggestion about to give classes is a wonderful challenge to all us stage holders. The question though is are we willing to share the space or the sound waves with our brother and sisters that love a different mix?
    In heaven we are not going to have our favorite guitar, drums or amps, but there is mention of some “weird” things being used and going on. If every tribe kindred, nation and tongue will gather ’round the throne t worship, get ready for fancy clapping, because in many cultures it is the God given expression used to anointedly worship the creator of all sounds of worship.
    We need to get over ourselves.

  19. William
    Posted June 4, 2009 at 5:12 pm | Permalink

    Becky,

    Before you tell others to go read the bible, perhaps you should check it out yourself… you are correct that playing skillfully is only mentioned in the Psalms one time (33:3)… However, you have overlooked that playing skilfully is specifically mentioned as a requirement in 1 Chr 15:22, 1Chr 25:1, 2 Chr 34:12, not to mention when David was specifically sought after for his skilled musicianship.

    We are not to be music nazi’s on God’s behalf, but just because someone plays the “I’ve been led by the Lord” card does not mean we have to give them the platform to do so… Many people have told me that they have been led to by the Lord to be on the worship team or to preach or whatever, my suggestion to them is that if they do not possess the skills neccessary to do that in a way that is edifying the entire church body that they need to invest the time and energy to hone their skills.

    You’re right we let too many medicore musician lead us in worship, but that does not mean that we should just open the flood gates to all who feel so moved.

    Afterall, if you were beginning a building project and someone with no construction experience said that they felt led by God to build your new sanctuary, would you let them?

  20. Scott Baroff
    Posted June 4, 2009 at 5:51 pm | Permalink

    I would just like to take a minute to look at this subject from a little different view. My first year or so of being a member of our praise and worship team has really been a learning experience for me. I has taught me many things concerning myself and how I share the love of Christ with everyone. I encounter in or out of praise and worship. I would like to say as leaders we have a rare and very special oppurtunity to see for a brief time where those in our congregation seem to be in the walk with the lord. It has been an amazing thing that has helped me seek out those who are still not so comfortable in there relationship with lord. I have seen by the not so understanding, fearful, disturbed, amazingly joyful, happy and content look on faces during worship, the actions or lack of actions who and in what way I can reachout to or come alongside these indivduals. God has given us another gift when he sets us in front of those we facilitate praise and worship of. We can praise and worship the lord anywhere, anytime with our musical gifts. However, he said we are not to forsake the assembling of ourselves and that it is for the edification of the saints. This has lead me to come to the conclusion that he has set me in front, facing the congregation so I can see with him who, I as a servant to him and his people shall minister to in whatever way he leads. That being said. I have enjoyed Performing (serving) with my musical talents for God and his people. I like to see the talents of others also. Some need to be guided and some need to be encouraged but either way if it is done with a desire to be a blessing to God and his people, awesome! The original Blog here seems to be directed to those of us who could use a little direction on reverance for God and respect for others in our congregation. Also, it to some degree seems to have meant to be some what humorous. let me just say. I did laugh a little. it reminded me of some days I was not in the right place when I came to church and enevitably walked out feeling just as distant from God as when I walked in. Praise God! He loves me even on those days. That is when it is somebody elses turn to minister to me.

  21. Becky
    Posted June 4, 2009 at 7:01 pm | Permalink

    William, I do not disagree with your comments, I do agree more with Scott though.

    Please read my comments on the followup blog”frustrates 2″ to understand the underlying point of what I said above. We “experienced” worship leaders/musicians often do not invest our time is mentoring the less skilled worshipers around us on a large scale. Most congregants will never attend a large worship conference so we should be bringing it home to them and not just by the changes we make on the stage at weekend services.

    It is fine and well to ask people to hone their skills but do we help them do that or leave them wondering where to go for that help? I think that even your own argument points that there should exist discipleship in worshiping yet most churches never invest time in this outside the weekly worship team practices which are open usually only to current worship team members.

    So do we glare at the fancy clappers (I could be accused of being one) and tambourinests, flag wavers, banner twirlers and shofar carrying worshipers or instruct them? Teach them about spiritual sensitivity in worship and how their “gift” is best applied during a gathering. Church life is far too full of unwritten” we just don’t do that here” and all of the above responses to God’s wonderfulness is indeed in the bible.

    We need to help the all worshipers express themselves and develop skill sets instead of just disallowing an instrument or creative response based solely on “it frustrates” the worship leader. That may have been the tongue in cheek idea behind the original blog. As the first faces our church attendees see representing the kingdom of God on weekends etc, would we best represent the king by de-tambourining them? ? ? ?

  22. scotty
    Posted June 5, 2009 at 1:32 am | Permalink

    Well in our church we have embraced the flag/banner waving. I am a worship leader and i find that there are 2 pople who are distracting in my church cause one shouts out thing and the other sings really loudly and really gets into the worship which is good but distracting and they both happen to sit in the front row. But as for musician we take what we can get but they do obviously have to be able to play mosst of the songs we have at our church. But at the end of the day it doesnt matter how the congregation worships as long as they are and if this is all you a worried about then you have missed the point of worship…

  23. john
    Posted June 5, 2009 at 6:50 am | Permalink

    I am not a worship leader either and often have problems with organized religion because of people like this. We all know of skilled television worship leaders that were evil in many ways… Now, someone who is obviously skilled in the music field suddenly thinks the God is “the” American Idol Judge!!! Bite me. You must be a white, anal, right wing christian that is more interested in looking good and being as plastic as Ken and Barbie. If we are to make a joyful noise to the Lord and He has given us the voice we have, you should look for another job assignment or say something to the effect that God called you somewhere else. You are not U2 putting on a concert. Could you see Bono telling the fans that might sing off key to be silent. You are just an ass and I hope I have opened your eyes to that at least a little. Restrict others because you are perfect in your eyes??? Who the hell are you? I would like to make sure I never become a part of your life!

  24. Ian
    Posted June 5, 2009 at 7:01 am | Permalink

    Ouch! My comment above is full on, but it is about the environment and perceptions about control and not the person who wrote this blog entry or the comments from folks who think differently than me.

    John, I think you stepped across a line you should not have. Spirited conversation is fine but not invective and denigration. It would be great if you issued a retraction or at least pulled back somewhat from what you have written.

    I don’t know Marie Page but I can tell you who she is: a child of God who is loved and cherished, as are you and we all. Please think again about your comment.

  25. terry
    Posted June 5, 2009 at 7:39 am | Permalink

    I want to believe this is supposed to be a forum where christians can talk about their differences and challenges as worship leaders or as members of the worship team in our local assemblies. Whatever you allow in your place of worship becomes the standard in your place of worship. we should be careful not to become too critical of one another and avoid words that are not fitting for a child of God.

    Some of us are making it look like leading worship is a show that needs to be organised to the minutest detail while some of us(I said some of us to include myself) are making it look like we can give God anything mediocre or shabby. Worship is not about any of us..whether we are irritated by someone who is doing it in a way to get attention to him/herself or someone who is just genuinely worshipping God but is not rhythmic in the use of whatever means it is they are using, Worship belongs to God.

    If somebody is not doing it right and it affects your effective worship leading sessions, there is nothing wrong if we talk about it to the person(s) in love and explain how what the person does during worship affects you. Love edifies and definitely, the person will want to know how to do it right.

    Let’s not crucify anyone for any reason. Love covers a multitude of sins. remember john 4:23-24 – God is the one seeking worshippers, not worshippers seeking Him. Let’s just do it in spirit and in truth. God Bless you all. I’ve learnt from all the comments I have read so far. Remember love is the key to the kingdom..love for God…love for the brethren.

  26. Simon
    Posted June 5, 2009 at 9:32 am | Permalink

    I agree there is a balance – if someone’s actions are distracting to the congregation in a negative way, and being done to bring attention to themselves not God then sure have a word.

    however…

    I am pretty God doesn’t care what we sound like on the outside, he cares about the music coming from our hearts. If you are more bothered about the sound others are making, and how it effects your singing, or if you can’t *worship* unless the music is *perfect* then you are the musical equivalent of a pharisee.

    If they are truly worshipping God then you can bet the music God hears from them is beautiful however bad their clapping is. Where as it doesn’t matter how good you sound sticking to the rules and regulations of music theory – if it’s not backed up by a heart focused on the Lord then you can be sure to Him you sound terrible.

  27. Kids Praise And Worship
    Posted June 5, 2009 at 3:02 pm | Permalink

    I have terrible timing, which is bad for a musician. But I guess that means that I contribute a bit to out of time clapping… (Im sorry :(…haha)

  28. Brendan
    Posted June 5, 2009 at 3:21 pm | Permalink

    Hey I’m with Tim on this one – I hope its tongue in cheek because if not then its offensive…

    We actually put out instruments and flags for the kids to use at our church… yes its distracting at times but we have to be ‘professional’ and focus on what we are called to do

    If it encourages the kids before they go off to junior church I am all in favour of it.

  29. William
    Posted June 5, 2009 at 4:15 pm | Permalink

    I think it’s important to remember that the original discussion was about things that frustrate worship leaders… No one ever said anything about telling rhythmically challenged people to go away or stop worshipping. Anyone who invests any sacrificial amount of time preparing for the worship service each week, not to mention the time and energy of trying to develop a functionl team of musicians (where most of us are slightly disfunctional already), as well as trying to stay in tune to the leading of the Spirit through the actual service… anyone who does this on a weekly basis is going to be frustrated by the service getting hijacked, not because some one is worshipping less than anyone else, but because the leader has spent time and energy seeking the Spirit and trying to prepare accordingly, but now the drummer can’t hear his monitors over the congrgation clapping on 7 differnt beats in a 4/4 song… it’s not right or wrong, it’s not being judgemental, it’s just frustrating. Ask any pastor who actually prepares sermons and ask how they would like for some one to come in and start changing things around mid sermon. Why is leading worship any different?

  30. Deb
    Posted June 5, 2009 at 4:34 pm | Permalink

    I agree 100% with William.

  31. Becky
    Posted June 5, 2009 at 6:46 pm | Permalink

    The problem with we worship folks is that we have created a sub-culture within the walls of the church and we only give a ticket to those we deem to have earned it, to join our little club. Jesus might have said “Woe to you scribes, Pharisees and worship leaders, suffer not the people to worship me as I inspire them”.

    That stage alone separates us from the our congregations and visitors, then we have by audition practices. We generally don’t join bible classes and unless there is a small group for musicians we don’t join those. We are too busy for outreaches unless we get to play or sing. So as mentioned above, yes we are guilty of being members of the American Idol cult.

    The following link is a great reminder that true worship has little to do with music, played well or not:

    http://christianmusic.suite101.com/article.cfm/leading_worship__setting_up_chairs

    We need to come down off the pedalstal we put ourselves on.

  32. john
    Posted June 5, 2009 at 7:48 pm | Permalink

    Sorry if I offended anyone who thinks they are in the least bit better than any of the sinners in the congragation. I would change my religion if I read anything close to the original comment in the Bible. And by the way, Jesus also was a little upset when entering the temple and saw selling of merchandice and was even upset enough to overturn the tables and chase everyone out. It saddens me as well to know that there are some who lead and because of the title alone feel above others. We should all remember that it is not a “stage” but God’s house! I don’t understand why you don’t pray for understanding but are quick to expel some in the congragation out the door of God’s house. Most secular musicians don’t hold the arrogence that I read in the original statement.
    I know that Jesus came to those who needed the word. He gave to the people that followed him.
    If you find yourself as a Christian ( Christ Like ) give to those you find offensive or disturbing with music lessons, clapping lessons and become that teacher or giver. To remove someone or put them on the offensive list as a worship leader is very disturbing to me. Maybe I am alone here but this is not a positive for organized religion. It is about the people in the pews not those on the alter. Jesus was the best reminder of that and He gave His life for those off key or a beat off.

  33. Aaron Campbell
    Posted June 5, 2009 at 8:32 pm | Permalink

    Becky, I love you with the love of Christ. I’m thankful that Jesus died for sinners like you and me. What grace! I’m also thankful to this site for allowing us to hi-jack their comments with off topic discussion.
    As I read through the above comments, two assumptions strike me:

    1. You assume that all worship leaders dream of being on American Idol and having adoring fans in our church. It’s as though you are assuming that we would share or take the glory belonging to God alone for ourselves. While I admit that I struggle with pride, and winning the approval of men, I do have a deep seated passion to treasure Christ above all else and for the members of the church I serve to treasure our Lord above everything in life. Worship leaders aren’t perfect, but please don’t assume that we all have worldly mindsets and care nothing for God’s glory. This leads to your second assumption:

    2. You seem to assume that everyone who brings a tambourine, waves a banner or claps with a special rhythm comes with clean hands a pure heart automatically. We are by nature sheep, and some (myself included at times) are like sheep without a shepherd. The human heart is deceitful above all else- who can know it. Not me. Not you. However, in His grace, God gives good gifts to his children to glorify Him and edify His church. Our job is to find those gifts and grow in them. It’s ok if we’re not gifted in an area that we really, really want to be. That doesn’t mean we’re less special, and it’s prideful – not holy- to grit our teeth and ignore the gentle guidance of pastors and fellow believers.

    Again, let’s enjoy the liberty that God gives to “poke fun” at one another without judging the heart of the other believer.

  34. Deb
    Posted June 5, 2009 at 10:12 pm | Permalink

    I want to add that we should NEVER call our worship platform a stage. If we think of it as a stage, it will be one. If we think of it as a mere platform, we will think correctly. If we use words like stage, then we are admittedly guilty of “performing” and not praising. That is why some congregation members, and worship leaders have the wrong idea about what being up there is all about. It’s very easy for those who are not living the lifestyle 24/7 to desire that extra attention. Our job as worship leaders and praise and worship team members is not about getting attention, but instead, it’s about bringing ALL the attention to Jesus. Anyone whose actions screams “Hey look at me!” should not be allowed anywhere near the platform because they are not worshipping in spirit and in truth.

  35. William
    Posted June 5, 2009 at 10:29 pm | Permalink

    Some of you seem to be so wrapped up in defending the congregation that you have become totally judgemental of other worship leaders… If I call a platform a stage that some how make me some narcissitic tele-evangelist trying to use God house for personal gain and the praise of men… Seriously? By making character attacks and assuming the lack of authenticity by those who are irritated by clapping and flags or whatever, you have now taken the role of the “holier than thou.” There is no reason that a leader should not be free to discuss things that they find to be frustrating. To call them “American Idol Wannabe’s” is slanderous and not at all in line with Jesus’ teachings of love or anything else. Some of you need to be really careful… read through these posts again… no one who was critical of clapping or flags or anything else was making judgment calls of anyones heart and attitude of worship… the only judgment was going the other way, because some dared to say something bugged them.

  36. Deb
    Posted June 5, 2009 at 10:51 pm | Permalink

    If you THINK of the platform as a stage you will act differently and think differently than if you have developed the habit of referring to it as a platform. A “stage” equals performing in our musician minds, whereas, psychologically, if you speak of it as a platform then it has a lesser importance. Think about that. As worldly musicians, we have grown accustomed to performing on a stage. If we bring that same attitude to worship, we are prideful and are not worshiping in spirit and in truth. I have found that once I explain that to new team members, the “watch me attitude” diminishes and the worship increases. They come to me later and tell me of how that has changed their thinking and their sincerity of worship. There are a lot of things we need to be careful of, be open to discussing, and to be correcting those that need correcting–doing it with love is the hard part.

  37. john
    Posted June 6, 2009 at 3:26 am | Permalink

    Last, let me say thanks to all of you who have a musical talent from hours of your own hard work as well as from a gift from God. And thank you all for sharing it with people like me who wish they had it. Music as it only can, makes a service a celebration at times as well as very reverent. I do appreciate all that musicians can and do contribute.
    When I read this article and it made reference to having a box at the church door like a TSA security it sounded like someone wanting to screen those who wish on their own accord to walk into the house of the Lord. I really think worship is a public way to say thank you for all you have done and will do for me to the One who died for us. I hope that we all feel that the Church is also a place welcome to sinners regardless of what distractions it might bring.
    If someone walked up to the alter during a sermon or during a musical program to turn their life over to Christ, I hope that interruption would be considered a compliment and a joyful moment rather than a disruption to the other worshipers.
    For those of us with children, we know the blessing of hearing our children sing and clap both out of key and off beat and also know it is from their heart.
    Many churches celebrate Christ in many different ways. I hope that we can all agree that we each have our own way and others should not be offended some one who is wishing to praise God from their heart.
    Just the fact knowing people are coming to your services lets you know you are worshiping in a group and scripture say when more than two are gathered in his name…
    I think of your talents as a gift and if gifts are given from the heart maybe you shouldn’t be judge how they are received. The focus should be more of thanking God for your talents and thanking him by performing to his people.
    I am glad that this has stimulated so much debate and hope we can all learn from each others comments.

  38. sundayschoolteacher
    Posted June 6, 2009 at 8:40 am | Permalink

    There is a difference between what should happen when there is a formal occasion like infant dedication, weddings, inductions, funerals and the “normal” services. People are longing for freedom. Yes some people do create a din in church. Where I go anyone is allowed to pick up a drum or tambourine and start beating it and sometimes its excruciating. Likewise people frequently start singing a song in a key too high or too low which has to be abandoned halfway through and started again. But when God shows up, none of these things matter.

  39. Paul
    Posted June 6, 2009 at 6:44 pm | Permalink

    Wow, I think some people need to chill out a bit and not take things too seriously. Tambourines, is it? I once was part of a worship band leading a service and as we started up, two women in the front row got out their tambourines to join in – one had flashing lights around it! Boy, did they get into worshipping the Lord!

    When leading worship, I’ve given out flags to wave and shakers to shake to the congregation, particularly the children. If it helps them understand God’s way, who am I to get in the way?

    If they sing out of tune, clap on the first beat/clap out of tune, who am I to question this?

  40. Thomas
    Posted June 6, 2009 at 7:26 pm | Permalink

    Aaaaaahhh Yeeaaah!!!!
    Great comment Paul and so many others!
    Man, that’s a whole lot of comments here. Somebody hit a nerve or two…
    I was thinking about getting a new amp for our church, maybe I should order some tambourines and shakers. I’ll talk it through with my pastor (maybe… not).
    Cheers from Germany.
    Thomas

  41. Marie Page
    Posted June 8, 2009 at 11:11 am | Permalink

    Firstly thank you to all who have taken the time to read through to here. I am the overal editor of the Musicademy blog. Sometimes I write posts, or we commission guest bloggers to write and other times I source interesting articles from elsewhere and post them (with permission of course).

    The two posts on Things That Frustrate Worship Leaders were written by an American blogger. I found them online and thought that they struck a chord. We know from analysing what people spend time on on the website that these humour articles are very popular, and I like to have a good balance between educational pieces, reflective pieces, practical pieces and humour to avoid the website getting too serious or techy. Humour is always the most difficult to post becuase what someone finds funny, someone else can find offensive. It is never our intention to offend and believe me we reject a lot of fabulous posts because for some cultures and some theological backgrounds they are just too close to the bone. We are based in the UK where I think humour is rather drier than in the US where a lot of our subscribers are – so our apologies if this one was too much for anyone.

    This post was most definitely a tongue in cheek look at things that some of us find funny, frustrating or irritating within our culture of the way we do modern church. It was not about criticising people that choose to clap or bring their own expression of worship from within the congregation – these are beautiful things. We or even Chico the blogger in seriousness were certainly not recommending that people choosing to worship in this way should be asked to stop! I actually have a friend in church affectionately known as ‘The Clapper’ who does all sorts of weird clapping – is it slightly off putting? A bit… Does it secretly make me laugh a bit inside? Actually yes… Would I ever tell him about it or want him to change – of course not! Do I think God enjoys him enjoying himself in worship– Yes yes yes! Do I think his clapping is cool? No. Should I be less worried about cool? I’m sure… but if I’m being honest it still makes me smile!

    From a musicians perspective it can be offputting or a tad frustrating for worship leaders if they themselves are not that confident or musically gifted (for instance it is easy to be pulled off time by other people clapping loudly and differently). Its fine to talk about these things – some people will be more critical than perhaps you might like but that is their decision and not our job to loudly proclaim a ‘one size fits all’ solution. Hence why we will not remove comments (unless they are highly offensive or slanderous). There is no perfect solution to irritating things in our musical expression of community worship. Its part of the ‘fun’ of working with an often disparate collection of varyingly skilled musicians, singers and other church members trying to be ‘helpful’. As we know the way through is the usual long ball game of openness, mentoring, education, practice, learning to like each other, playing to our strengths, open, frank discussion and perhaps not taking ourselves too seriously.

    So from the observational humour perspective when we observe and point things out about our artistic expressions in church and the way we go about our stuff in Christian culture – some of it is a bit strange. And sometimes we do have to take a look at ourselves and say ‘why do we really do that or talk like that?’ As we know humour can get often get us to that point more deeply than a myriad of lengthy, serious discussions. And the hope is that as we explore the idiosyncrasies of our culture we’ll be able to pick through the activities we engage in as we worship and take an honest look at what really helps us to connect with God and grow as Christians and what is meaningless activity and noise. Yes, humour can be a bit of a hot potato, we will occasionally get it wrong but we’ll always try to be aware of cross cultural sensitivities so please bear with us. It’s a shame that while some people have found this honest and refreshing, one or two others have actively unsubscribed in protest – this seems a real shame given that it is a tiny percentage or what else is available on the site. As Christians we all have very different takes on our theology – please don’t vilify us or other commentator if you disagree with one thing. There are plenty of things we can agree on – and plenty else to work through in an open sensible discussion. Christianity has suffered so much over the years with dogmatic statements – let’s avoid adding to that.

    What I love about these blog opportunities though is the fact that so many people engage with the topic. You have talked about it and in some cases gone way off the original topic. This is fine – its all part of having a conversation – online or in person. We’ve all learnt something of someone elses perspective and I hope have each been challenged in some way.

    We will continue to post a variety of articles and hope that you will continue to weigh them, chew them over and respond to them. We so don’t want this site to be “luke warm” but to be vibrant, educational and with a broad tolerance of each others’ differences.

  42. Lesley Simpson-Gray
    Posted June 8, 2009 at 11:25 am | Permalink

    This MUST be a ’spoof’, but very funny nonetheless. Many a true word is said in jest!

    For those who secretly share many of these frustrations, I’d say you’re way too busy gazing at your congregation to lead worship at all! When you can be so observant about every move and sound within your congregation, you ought to be alot more sensitive towards their experience of worship too.

    Leaders are there to provide vision, not bully and micro-manage people into worshipping by numbers. Obviously, things happen when a congregation aren’t inspired by a certain way of worshipping, and take to doing some more personal things in order to have a meaningful encounter of their own with God. Or even, when God decides He wants to do something different anyway!

    I grew up in a very lively Pentecostal-type church; hand-clapping, tambourine playing, harmonizing, dancing, young and old…it was all good, and everyone got involved. If you don’t like what you see, close your eyes and focus on God instead – after all, it’s all Him.

  43. Sarah
    Posted June 8, 2009 at 2:21 pm | Permalink

    Wow, some debate this has caused! Let’s remember a few things:

    (1) this was a tongue-in-cheek view on our modern (Western) worship sub-culture, and what we have sometimes allowed it to become. It was actually funny as a worship leader, although may possibly have been a bit too risky/strong in some parts.

    (2) this was written by a non-worship leader, and will not see things the same way we worship leaders do.

    (3) Above all, balance is key. I have been worship leading for 13 years, and have seen both extremes of the scale and everywhere in between! Flags, tambourines, percussion, et al. I’ve been on the congregational side and on the leadership side. Ultimately, balance must be present. The “whole counsel of God”, not just one scripture. The co-existence of skillful playing and the correct heart attitude behind it. The principals of “decently and in order”, and allowing the Spirit the space to do whatever, whenever, through whoever. Both sides of these things are valid and both are necessary in our worship meetings. God is calling us to avoid swinging to any extreme of the scale, as we the church have so often fallen into over the generations (hence the plethora of denominational steams we have today), and look for the balance at all times.

    I personally admit to being a bit of a perfectionist; yet I would rather have a congregation expressing themselves freely in worship with a right heart attitude, despite the fact that it grates on my musical ears sometimes, then to have everything musically perfect and no connection between people and their God. This is what it’s all about. I believe strongly in excellence, high standards and “protecting the platform” as some call it, as much as I strongly believe in freedom in Christ, “body ministry” and a heart that gives its best, and is given freedom to do so in the house of God.

    A final thought – Love must be the most central component in what we do – love for God expressed as worship, whether in public or in private, love for the House of God, love for the people of God, whether they grate on us or are accomplished in music ministry, love for blog writers and those who comment on them! Let’s be quick to listen, slow to anger and rich in love, in our corporate worship and in every area of our lives as worshippers.

  44. Becky
    Posted June 8, 2009 at 3:54 pm | Permalink

    In response to Aaron, many bible scholars believe that satan was the choir director in heaven before he rebelled against God, would he not try to get us to behave like him also? Any musician that has played or sang in front of people, in a moment of honesty will tell you what a rush it was. It is the battle of ego and heart that worship team members fight each week, so calling it “American Idolism” cant truly br that far off can it?

    Yes we want to serve Jesus, know Him more, need only Him, but as Paul talks so clearly about everyday we do battle with our own flesh. And in my own life and ministry of 41 years of worship leading and being on teams, in multiple church, camp, mission and outreach settings, the daily battle has been to not esteem myself higher than I ought. That is my point about all the ugliness that comes from worship teams and pastors on what will or will not be allowed within a particular set of 4 walls.

    We enforce rules yet fail to teach. Yes some folks will never invest enough time to learn to clap on time but should’nt we invest in this anyway? Some of the youth I have been privileged to mentor through the years have become amazing worship leaders; these were kids that pastors, youth pastors and choir directors asked why I was wasting my time, “they can’t sing” or “they will never learn to play that guitar so we can stand it”. (real quotes) Three of those 20 somethings are on staff at other churches leading worship and making a living in ministry. What if I had asked them to sing less loud or asked them to join another ministry ?

    Along with skill training we need to remind ourselves and our teams to ‘beat the flesh into submission’ as Paul said and not take ourselves so seriously. I never stated in any of my posts that I had not been bothered at one time or another by the original blogger’s list of folks; I proposed however, that we rise above the spotlight and serve our congregations by getting off the platform, belvedere, dais, floor, podium, pulpit, rostrum, scaffold, scaffolding, staging, terrace or pedestal we work on and invest in them by teaching workshops, bible classes on the topic. So that we end up with our people more free to worship but more importantly we disciple rather than judge them in worship.

  45. Heather Clark
    Posted June 9, 2009 at 8:11 am | Permalink

    Our church is quite free. We have flags at the back and many africans who play tambourines and sometimes we have offerings where we dance to the front to put money in even if it goes through the bank. We have a really good trained dancer and she leads the children and anyone who wants to do flags and sometimes often they go to the front and their dancing can be prophetic. We all can be too quick to criticise and I always remember when i was younger in our Kids study group that we had a talk on when david danced wearing only an ephod and after when his wife criticised him she no longer could have children. I’m not saying that people won’t be able to have children anymore but that it is so important to control our tongue and our thoughts because this story shows how important it is not to criticise someone when they are truly trying to worship God. There is one guy who has just started drumming and is a really bad dancer and the rest of the youth are always backchatting about his dancing and it always reminds me to be really careful about how we react to other peoples worship.

  46. Sarah
    Posted June 9, 2009 at 8:27 am | Permalink

    I really like the call to mentoring/discipleship Becky, and am delighted to hear people are doing that as well as just leading. My husband and I are big on that, we run conferences and training, spend time with team members and help them through areas, as well getting close enough to them as mentors so they can see the example of a worship lifestyle we try to model. Not always easy! But very worthwhile. May more worship leaders take up this challenge, to invest in people and raise up genuine worshippers.

  47. Becky
    Posted June 10, 2009 at 12:12 am | Permalink

    Thanks Sarah for the encouraging words and it delights me to hear of others that are mentoring folks.

    Darlene Z of Hillsong calls herself a mother to those she trains and I pray regularly that God will call more Mothers and Fathers of the faith to mentor aspiring worshipers whether or not they ever take a leadership role at the front of their home church.

    Worship in a musical form can be so fulfilling, growth inspiring and enjoyable let’s have a good time rather than a judge time.

    Blessings to all of you out their that pour your lives into this wonderful part of our time gathered together!

  48. Phill
    Posted June 13, 2009 at 11:23 am | Permalink

    Thanks Marie for some very wise explanitory words in this comment http://www.musicademy.com/2009/05/21/people-that-frustrate-worship-leaders-part-1/#comment-1853

  49. Marcus
    Posted June 14, 2009 at 12:56 pm | Permalink

    Thank God there was no ‘worship team’ in the Early Church. At least there, everyone was free to participate, and no one would complain about rhythm or singing in tune.

    Imagine that “I’m sorry, if you can’t sing in tune, you shouldn’t worship God….just do it in your heart”.

    Blogs like this just show us how people see ‘worship’ nowadays. Instead of individuals coming together to offer something from their hearts, it’s now about the rock band at the front of the church, and the congregation are just a Christian audience.

    Seriously, the writer of the blog should just leave the church, and start his own rock band, telling people to shut up, so that he can have his own perfect performance.

  50. Marcus
    Posted June 14, 2009 at 1:01 pm | Permalink

    Seriously, whenever I’ve led worship, I’ve always sought to be a signpost that points to God…when people start singing their own songs, or start clapping or whatever, I’m happy, because I feel I’ve done my job – to get people connected with God.

    Whether people are singing the songs I prepared are irrelevant…if they are connecting with God in their own way, it’s a good thing. In worship, I, the worship leader am UNIMPORTANT. The individuals of the congregation are the important ones, and their personal communication with God.

    I also have a Jazz/Funk/Soul band that does stuff outside the church…at THOSE times then yes, we perform, and the BAND is the spotlight…people come to see US, and that’s great! But at church, people aren’t coming for the BAND (or at least they shouldn’t be)…they should be coming to connect with God!

    Sorry, it’s just irritating when people mix up the settings. A Worship service is NOT a gig!

  51. hannah
    Posted June 14, 2009 at 8:22 pm | Permalink

    I was once involved in a live worship album recording. There were probably about 5000 people in the congregation and we didn’t know until we listened back to the recording that there was someone in the congregation playing a tamborine very badly to every single song! My husband, the drummer, had to overdub a tamborine track on every single track to try and cover up the bad one!

    If something is being recorded i don’t think that God would mind if a gentle notice came from the front asking if people in the congregation would refrain but in other circumstances let’s just be kind to each other. If someone sings badly think about what it sounds like to Jesus and how much he loves it and try to focus yourself on worship. stuff like this has never bothered me. I feel a bit irritated that the person who originally made these comments has made them on the assumption that it would bother the worship leader though they are not one themselves. When a leader’s heart is for worship it is not as simple as dismissing worship from other members of the congregation and really who is it more important to please? Us or God.

  52. Nick
    Posted June 16, 2009 at 12:00 am | Permalink

    Folks are taking this thread far to seriously.
    My view is: Worship Bands are there to serve and help bring the people into the presence of God, not perform.
    However, if the band are not playing as a unit, someone is out of tune, a singer is off-key, etc, it will distract a congregation, not help it.
    And if, say, the violinist saws away in his (or her) own private world paying no attention to the band, it’s not good.
    Similarly, if some muppet is loudly and disjointedly waving a tambourine around, it isn’t going to be helpful to those around them. Or if you keep getting a flag wafting over your head, it’ll be somewhat distracting. Nothing wrong with wanting to praise extravagantly – provided it doesn’t injure those around you, or hinder their Worship.

    Psalm 33 says “play skillfully and shout for joy”. I take that to suggest that there is a place for both good musicianship and just exhuberant praise.
    Amos 6 suggests to me that skillful playing for the sake of it is pointless in the context of Worship. It also hints that David was a bit of a Hendrix on the harp!

    I much prefer a tight band – the alternative is a distraction to me.
    And I like a bit of skill to be shown, if it’s in context and tasteful. I’m not above playing the odd fill or lick on my guitar – I tend to get asked to do more of it, but it isn’t Nick’s show, so I’m fairly restrained.

    All for God’s glory, above all.

  53. Jamie
    Posted June 16, 2009 at 12:13 pm | Permalink

    I find it unbelievable how people can be offended by these two posts, seriously the church needs to be able to laugh at itself. And there is nothing wrong with making fun of each other a bit as long as it’s not meant maliciously. I found these hilarious, particularly the one about humming senior pastors, and the powerpoint one. It’s just so true! I’m amazed that someone who is not a worship leader could be so perceptive about this.

    All this guy is saying is that we find this kind of stuff annoying, not that we have a huge problem with the type of people described. I’ve led worship for many years and I really identify with the frustrations described, this stuff really is what goes through your mind while you are playing. Honestly, I don’t believe that anyone who has actually led worship in a small church with a band of limited technical ability does not find this stuff annoying. We put up with it, and so we should (obviously it’s not that important in the scheme of things) but that doesn’t mean we don’t find it a bit frustrating.

    And anyone who claims that they don’t has either never led worship, or is lying.

  54. pete
    Posted June 20, 2009 at 8:51 pm | Permalink

    i write songs of faith and theology but my )paster said i sounded awful-now i sing them in pub open mics where i am welcomed-ironic or what

  55. Kiwi
    Posted June 25, 2009 at 6:47 am | Permalink

    My pet peeve is when someone says “Worship was great/terrible” but hasn’t taken time to ask God if He liked it.

  56. pete
    Posted June 27, 2009 at 12:32 pm | Permalink

    agree kiwi though i am not good at hearing GOd apart from his word but ihope that humbly striving for excelence even if deficient is pleasing to him -a good worship only means someone enjoyed it

  57. Mitzi Barker
    Posted June 30, 2009 at 4:59 pm | Permalink

    Whoa – has anyone considered that sometimes worship leaders (facilitators?) may irk worshippers? That our pursuit of musical excellence may sometimes even disappoint the Lord we direct our worship to? Can we please get back to some basics? Worship is not about clapping on the off-beat, dramatic effects, or amazing solos – it is about offering ourselves to God, to exalting him over worldly values and treasures. Yes, we are to play excellently, but not at the expense of keeping the main thing the main thing.

  58. Critch
    Posted July 7, 2009 at 9:20 pm | Permalink

    Jamie, I totally agree with all your comments.
    One other thing I’d like to add about playing skillfully if I may – I live in a rural village which isn’t flush on professional, Spirit filled Christian musicians walking through the church doors. Our worship team started off over 20 years ago with just me, an untrained singer and a better than average guitarist with a passion for modern worship songs and the One they were written for. We now have a large band and not one proffesional musicians or singer amongst us. We are committed to our Lord, our Church and each other and use what ever gifts God gives us in the absolute best way we can. We have had a few highly skilled musicians join us – and leave us – over the years who were far more distracting during worship than any out of time hand clapping, banner waving, tamborine bashing individual could ever be because their focus was their performance and not the worship – and seriously, they did call the raised platform their stage and the congregation their audience.

    When you’re in the front line, there will always be distractions of one kind or another, because let’s face it, the enemy just hates us to worship the Lord.

    Getting back to the skilled bit – I’ve currently got a group of teenage girls (all from within the church) who asked to come along and join the group. They are unskilled, undisciplined with no committment to the rest of the worship group. They mime all the way through the worship (something I did when I first joined the church choir) and they turn up only when they feel like it. This is a huge annoyance, but what is the alternative, we can’t wait until they get skilled, we have to accept them where they are at NOW and keep pressing forward with them, otherwise, they may be lost to the world and where does that leave the church with worship leaders for the future. My current lesson, I guess, is being tolerant and accepting that Church can be messy at times.
    What would Jesus do? Messy church I believe!

  59. Fe Edmund
    Posted July 12, 2009 at 6:39 am | Permalink

    Things that frustrate me as a worship leader (ie minister)
    include
    a) musicians calling themselves worship leaders. There is loads more to worship than music. if we start refering to musicians as worship leaders we get a very unbalanced view of what worship is. See the other blog in this issue about worship being “boring”

    b)musicians taking centre stage. Twenty years ago you would have the band off to one side, and at the centre of the church would be the altar or the pulpit or some other Christian symbol. Now the band are on a “stage”, the centre of all we do.

    c) the culture of performance worship. The charismatic movement was once about freeing congregations from spectator culture. Instead of having an organ and choral music that you just listened to, you would have music people could join in with. Songs might even begin from within the congregation raher than from the front. There was a recognition that the Spirit could lead everyone.
    This seems to have been lost

    ps The most liberating thing I ever learnt was that God is tone deaf

  60. pete
    Posted July 12, 2009 at 10:18 pm | Permalink

    i like that last line Fe-must remmember that maybe some a little O T T but a good remindwer -ps i can usually spell – honest|

  61. brian elliott
    Posted August 5, 2009 at 9:40 pm | Permalink

    God is good, let’s cut the criticism and love the people. Not everyone is a skilled musician. If someone comes in with a tambourine than be honest if they are distracting. Shofars are awesome and a blessing. Where is your heart and the heart of your church in worship. We have a wonderful and forgiving congregation that is warm and kind that enjoys God and the people. I would that all churches could use our model..
    Lovingly, Brian Elliott

  62. Steve Ripley
    Posted September 15, 2009 at 6:30 am | Permalink

    Though I am a worship leader, I always try to keep in mind what it’s like to be in the congregation. How often have we had to endure worship leaders who sing in a key much too high for the average human, or indulge themselves in a personal worship time on stage far too long by repeating part of a song endlessly, not noticing that the people have lost interest.
    Here’s a MAJOR peeve — leaders who insist on directing when worshippers should raise their hands, or clap, and then berate them for not doing so “enough”.
    A related peeve: the worship leader, or even the pastor says, “Good morning.” to the congregation. The congregation responds, “Good morning.” but they do it too quietly, so the leader demands they say it over and over until he decides they’ve said it loud enough. Drives me nuts!!!

  63. Fran
    Posted September 15, 2009 at 8:17 pm | Permalink

    I am actually a seeking non-Christian looking for a adult ed. song-writing course and stumbled accross this site and read with interest! Wow guys, relax. Take it from me, walking into something from the Vicar of Dibley where noone is quite on key but the mass just about get there and the organist hits the odd wrong note has a certain charm and honesty to it, I play elec guitar and sax and would prefer a modern sound in church, but the more polished and insular the worship band, the bigger the walls you’re building around yourselves. I’ve come accross plenty of websites sporting flash pics of the trendy worship band, and absolutely no church cafe or more accessible services for people on the outside like me. You have to ask yourselves what you’re doing it for.

  64. Marie Page
    Posted September 16, 2009 at 8:12 am | Permalink

    Hi Fran
    Thanks for your comment. On songwriting we would recommend a great book called Tunesmith: Inside the Art of Songwriting by Jimmy Webb
    I’ve put a link to it on Amazon below

    http://www.amazon.co.uk/Tunesmith-Inside-Songwriting-Jimmy-Webb/dp/0786884886/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1253088596&sr=8-1

  65. Glory
    Posted October 14, 2009 at 2:54 am | Permalink

    My whole church ministry background is primarily worship leading, either as a leader or on the team. I can amusingly relate to a lot of what was discussed. Our church is in the same building as another church who holds midweek services while we have our weekly prayer meeting. At some point we do hear the shofar and we know, through our drummer who assisted in their services, that they have banners and flags. By contrast our church does not so I can just imagine how it would go over if anyone came into our worship service with a tambourine or banners! This was such an enjoyably entertaining read I’m glad our church bassist passed the link on to me.

    Oh, and a brief comment to those who are obviously taking this whole thing way too seriously, pontificating on “to judge or not to judge” while I understand the issues relating to worship styles etc. these were pet peeves, not doctrinal principles, and humorously related, too. Ultimately each church’s worship leader and pastor should come into agreement on what will be encouraged or gently discouraged. But taking a lighthearted post and debating it heatedly appears like some are really overreacting.

  66. Trudy
    Posted November 13, 2009 at 2:57 pm | Permalink

    I am concerned that you feel less able to join the congregation and so drum.
    Our gifts do not define us and in all my years as a vocalist I am repeatedly challenged by God to step out of my comfort zone. More recently I have faced many setbacks and the operation on Monday may deprive me of my singing voice and affect the way I speak. I am so truely grateful that God challenged me long ago to step out of my comfort zone to dance, mime, sign, wave banners, paint to Him in Worship. Now I can continue to express my love for Him and inspire others as He has permitted in the past, Hallelujah! Don’t squench the Spirit but pray that God will change you. Don’t hold your gifts too tightly or He may take them away!
    Yours in Christ.

  67. john
    Posted February 12, 2010 at 6:20 pm | Permalink

    i think at the start you said you were not a worship leader? if i got this correct then maybe you should stick to what you are good at. and maybe when you are worshiping you should keep your eyes focused on Jesus which is the whole point of it all anyway.

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